Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Betty

Oh, where do I start. Saying goodbye to Betty was so hard.

She started watching Ryan when I returned to work when he was 3 months old. She and Ryan had a very special bond, and it was very hard to move 45 minutes from her when we moved from our first house to The Woodlands when Ryan was almost 3. She remained in our lives, coming to birthday parties, and watching the kids for me when I had meetings near her. As time went on, I would make special trips so she could see the kids. Then when Lauren was born, she welcomed her as if she had the same connection she had with Ryan. Lauren loves her too, and always wants to go to Betty's with Ryan. And Betty has been such a good friend to me. So, we found time for the kids to spend an afternoon with her before we left.

Betty knows she is always welcome in our house....and we joke that she will fly to Colorado to see snow. She is a true Southern Lady, with a think accent, and a heart of gold. I was so fortunate to find her. We look forward to seeing her when we visit Houston!

Here are some pictures from over the years.




We visited Betty on May 31, a week before we left, to say goodbye. We will visit her when we visit Houston! Ryan 9, Lauren 6.


 

Betty at Ryan's 6 year old party in 2009, with grandson, Griffin
 
Christmas 2009
Christmas 2008



Betty visited when Lauren was 2 weeks old, Feb., 2006. She gave Ryan his batman costume, which he loved for many years.



 

 
Betty at Ryan's 1st Birthday party at our Meadow Falls house in Houston.
 
 

Monday, October 29, 2012

Horseback riding

When we told Lauren about the move, she said there were 2 things she wanted to do in Colorado…..take jazz classes and ride horses. I found a horse camp through the rec center and she was able to take 2 weeks of classes over the summer. It’s very basic, but she loved it! 








July 2012: Colorado summer fun

July can mostly be defined by extended family. We really enjoyed spending time with family and the kids enjoyed spending time with their cousins, which is really important to us! Once a year or 2 isn’t enough time to get to know them!


·      My mom and her 2 dogs lived with us for the month of July, staying in the basement guest room while she looked for a place to rent. We stored her things in our garage for the month. 
 
A visit to the Botanical Gardens at Chatfield
 

·       My nephew, Shep, was playing in a Little League State championship, so we were able to attend some of his games and visit with my brother Eric, his wife Krista and Carson and Foster, which was nice! We also made it to one of Carson's baseball games!

Saabye Cousins
 
Shep
 
Carson

 

·       We spent 4th of July at a BBQ at Mike and Camille's house.

 

·       We saw Nancy often and she introduced the kids to golf, and she and Gary took the kids golfing a few times.

 

·       We were able to see Jack play hockey a couple times! And, Mark and Mike took the kids biking up Waterton Canyon, and tubing in Golden.




Ryan tells the story of how he was "charged by the Ram" (on the left side of the trail!)
 



 

·       Mark's Dad, Steve, came out and spent almost a week with us, hiking and biking. One day, we even hiked up St. Mary's Glacier. No kidding. I thought we were going to stop at the lake below the glacier....and then I thought we were going to stop at the bottom of the glacier and touch it. But no, we continued....all the way up the entire thing and beyond so we could see the Continental Divide! Wow! Ryan and Lauren really hung in there....and so did I!

Mark, Ryan and Grandpa Steve biked on the trails near our home.  

Beginning the hike to St. Mary's Glacier

The glacier is behind the lake. Often, the lake is the destination. Not for us!
 






 


 

 

 

We've Moved!


Sunday, October 28, 2012

June 1-17: Goodbye Houston, Hello Denver


The first week of June was hard. The kids were out of school. They went to a tennis camp with friends in the mornings, and had play dates every afternoon to keep them busy, and let them see friends. But, it was a hard week of goodbyes. 

Ryan with Michael Montemuno and Sean in back
 
The one thing that made it easier was staying with our friends, the Bridges. They traveled with the military, and understood that even though we owned our house the last week, staying there once the packing started would not really be feasible. They offered to let us stay at their house the last week, and their kids and ours are good friends…and the same ages. So, while all of our Legos were packed…..Ryan could play Legos with Jack at night. Same with Lauren, who could play with Allison. Being able to go there made such a huge difference in the transition.
 
Celebrating Jack's birthday!

 
Another meal with friends....TJ, Luka, Jack and Ryan


June 3: We shipped our 3 cats, Shadow, Socks and Hunter to Colorado. Mark’s mom, Nancy, was nice enough to pick them up and keep them at her house for a week for us. The veterinarian suggested that we board them before the chaos of packing started, and that was such a good suggestion.

June 4: Packers arrive. They worked from 8 a.m. - 9:30 p.m. Mark was gone and the kids had their morning camp, afternoon play dates and then, I thought we'd be done. They were troopers, and hung out at the house as the packing was finished. Then we headed to the Bridges, exhausted!
 



June 6:  The  55 ft. truck arrives. They loaded from 8 a.m. - 4 p.m. and packed it in like a puzzle, filling every space. We were trying to fit my mom's storage unit into the same truck. As it turns out, they weren't able to fit all of it onto this truck with our stuff, and there was an "overflow shipment" with the rest of her things.  The total weight was 30,180 lbs. (4,820 was my mom’s). Continental paid for 18,000 lbs. Arg.    



June 7: Clean house, say goodbye to 43 Golden Shadow Circle, The Woodlands,TX 77381

June 8: Supposed to close on TX house. Auto transport picks up Denise’s car.

June 9: Denise and kids fly to Denver. (There’s a funny story here. We had the highest “standby” tickets, but at the last minute they called my name, because the flight was overbooked and they had been asking for volunteers. I had a sinking feeling, and they asked me if I was a “must ride.” I said "yes", as tears filled my eyes! Then I back-pedaled, because technically we weren’t. That means, “if you don’t get on the flight, will you jeopardize the operations of the airline?”  Obviously no, we were not “must rides,” but I have 2 emotional kids with an emotional mom and we had just said goodbye to everything and everyone, and we need to get on that plane….not to be stuck in the Houston airport for another 9 hours until they put us on the last flight to Denver.  I was seriously on the verge.  Somehow it worked out and they were able to put enough people on other planes that we actually got the whole row together. Thank you!!! )

Nancy (Mark's mom) picked us up at the Denver airport and let us stay with her until our house closed. We were reunited with the cats at her condo! Mark started driving Saturday evening, after going to training all day, picking up 2 aquariums and picking up the boat!  He stopped somewhere past Dallas!
Lauren reunited with Hunter!

June 10: Mark arrived, fish alive and boat in tact!

June 11: We were supposed to close on the Denver house this day and move in Tuesday, but there were delays in closing the TX house and we were extremely frustrated with the Loan company. (Don’t EVER use United Veteran’s, or accept an offer from someone using them). Instead, we went on a hike.
Lair o' the Bear Hike
  
 
June 14: We FINALLY closed on both houses, and spent our first night at 9875 Glenstone Trail with cats, on air mattresses, with sleeping bags and a mini-fridge. All of our belongings went into storage, and couldn’t be delivered until June 18. But, we were so happy to have closed, and there wasn’t much we could do, except to play! (the play set came with the house!)

 

We had an unusually “free” weekend…without a house to keep clean, or things to put away, or food to cook (no pots and pans!)…..we were able to enjoy Colorado! Saturday we went to my nephew’s baseball game, took the kids up Cheyenne Canyon where I used to play when I was little, drove by my old High School, and …… 
Shep Saabye baseball




Cheyenne Canyon

This is also, when coming out of the canyon, we noticed a large plume of smoke from the Colorado Springs mountains. As it turned out, it was the very beginning of the Waldo Canyon fire….which ended up burning 150 homes, and causing my brother and his wife to store things here….just in case they needed to evacuate, they could with 1 car, all kids and one dog…knowing that their special things were safe. It was a scary time. We almost felt like we brought the heat and fires with us, as Texas was on fire last year.

Waldo Canyon fire

 

May 2012

I think we were just working on adrenaline during May.

It was crazy. I had lists and lists of things to get done. I made a list of the remaining days that Mark had off, and we had a checklist for every one of those days to get everything done with the house, boat, etc. We were also trying to help the kids manage their emotions of sadness over leaving their friends and the only place they had known.

This is also a month still filled with end of school-year activities: dance, chess class, play dates, Kindergarten and 3rd Grade Field Day and lots of contractors fixing things, me selling a lot of things on Woodlands Online, and figuring out our timeline for the move!

May 5: Lauren’s Dance Performance

Lauren is in the middle



Lauren's best friend, Brynne, came to watch her perform! Lauren and Brynne have been friends since they were in preschool together at 15 months of age!
 

May 5: We accepted a contract on our house! (4 weeks after listing, and a long week after hearing that a contract would be coming)

May 6: Mark and I flew back to Denver by ourselves to look at more houses, look at our favorite from our last trip (the one we ended up buying!) and decide on one! The Leal's were nice enough to let Ryan and Lauren spend the night at their house and go to school with them the next day.

May 8: Made an offer on our Highlands Ranch house

May 11: Mark flew back to Denver to do the inspection.

May 12: Our 11th Wedding Anniversary! Celebrated with Dinner and Styx/Reo Speedwagon concert with Scott and Lisa.

May 17: Lauren’s Kindergarten Music Program. She thoroughly enjoyed her program!
Lauren at her music program
 
 
 


 
Mrs. Turco, Lauren's Kindergarten teacher reading Lauren's "All About Me" poster.


Chess Classes:
Ryan has taken chess classes off and on for 2 years. This is a picture of the last session, which he also took with Alex and Gracie.

Ryan's chess class



May 18: Our friends, The Creighton’s hosted a going away party for us with Cub Scout friends. We appreciated their help so much during the last couple months. They were amazing and we will never forget their generosity. They used to move with the military, and understood the craziness we were going to experience!

Going away party at Creighton house

Kids at going away party

May 29: My mom's Birthday! Lauren got excited adding extra whipped cream to the Strawberry Shortcake!


May 31: Last day of school. What normally is “the best day,” was bittersweet for Ryan and Lauren, and they felt it was “the last time they would see their friends.” Ugh!